I see - oh, my goodness - some waving happening. Get Involved Show submenu for “Get Involved””.The White House Show submenu for “The White House””.Office of the United States Trade Representative.Office of Science and Technology Policy.Executive Offices Show submenu for “Executive Offices””.Administration Show submenu for “Administration””.The policy is always out of sight out of mind. That belief that you cannot get the other woman out of your mind is a falsehood that you need to get rid of. Pray hard that the your wife and the woman’s husband do not find out what is going on. It will get you into trouble with yourself, your wife and with the other woman’s husband. Sexual connection or chemistry with a married woman is one thing but emotional attachment will only get you in trouble. These thoughts are sometimes beneficial especially if you no longer find your wife attractive in bed.Īt least when you think of your fantasy during such moments it inspires you to make passionate love to your partner.įinally, it is a futile undertaking for a man to be emotionally attached to a woman who is married to another man. All men have a woman or women they think about when they are making love to their wives - from movies stars, to politicians, porn stars and models and even a neighbour’s hot wife. It is time you let go of those fantasies and focus on your marriage. She is safely tucked in another man’s arms.Īs a matter of fact she is performing well wherever she is as a wife, mother and a sex partner to her husband so you are the only one who is losing out. It is your reputation at stake here not hers.
The point is that the buck stops with you. If your sex life is pathetic, your wife may think that she is the problem, you are not attracted to her, are having other lovers on the side or your game is wanting. Regarding having a bad sex life with your partner, I have a few extras for you.įirst, do not forget that your performance in bed will be analysed with you as the focal point - not her. Some of these fantasies are carried into marriages and just like that woman, they keep coming back to us but they remain just that - harmless fantasies.īecause you are married, you should ignore these temporary distractions and purpose to make your marriage work. Every one of us has their fantasies, which range from past lovers to women that were out of reach. Njau, what you are going though is common to most men. Forget the other woman and stop all forms of communication with her because you are married. The issue may seem trivial but it has the potential to destroy your marriage. What you feel for her is not love but pure lust. Remember that this woman is also married and has a husband and child to take care of. Forget this other woman and focus on your marriage. The issue may seem small but it can ruin your marriage. Njau, remember that you are married and have a wife and daughter who need you. Remember in the Bible Lot’s wife turned into a pillar of salt because of her indecisiveness. Stop looking behind when everyone else is moving ahead. Think of the virtues that you saw in your wife and focus. What you are feeling is infatuation and it has serious consequences. If she was better than any other woman, you ought to have married her.
Njau, the Bible says, thou shall not covet another man’s wife. Your heart, body and mind belong to one person and that is your wife.
It’s high time you focused on your marriage and how to build it. A relationship, just like a ship on the sea has to face turbulence but in the long run, the storm subsides. It’s good that you have decided to open up about the issue.